Firstly, a thought created in my mind, Is a failure a crime? Failures are attempting suicide in mass number. According to my research, the only thing is highlighted that the students who attempted suicide is about 75% marks and above ones. The only reason behind this is, these students don't have an ability to face problems and the second is their mentality, they don't have a habit of loosing.
So friends, the blog title's says everything. Failure is not bad nor good too, but avoiding a failure part and attempting suicide is the biggest mistake we do.When it comes to failing, our attitude is our worst enemies. As soon as things start going wrong, our defence mechanisms kick in, tempting us to do what we can to save face. Yet, these very normal reactions- denial, chasing your losses, and hedonic editing- wreak havoc on our ability to adapt.
The sweetest victory is the one that's most difficult. The one that requires you to reach down deep inside, to fight with everything you have got. To be willing to leave everything out there on the battlefield without knowing. If your heroic effort will be enough.
Society doesn't reward defeat. and you won't find many failures documented in history books. The exceptions are those failures that become stepping- stones to later success. Such in the case with Thomas Edison, whose most memorable invention was the light bulb, which purportedly took him 1,000 tries before he developed a successful prototype. "How did it feel to fail 1,000 times?" a reported asked. "I didn't fail 1,000 time" Edison responded. "The light bulb was an invention with 1,000 steps".
The only thing, failure is to do is to keep a positive nature and one thing should always keep in mind that Yes, I Can Do It!!. This positive attitude will give you the way to success. Life is all about ups and downs, don't panic and run away, we must fight and do efforts. Success isn't too hard nor too easy, do with full concentration and your hands will be filled with full of success.
Accept the mistake of being failure and correct all the mistakes that affect us to being failure. Leave all that bullshit that distract our mind and just concentrate on your goal. After being failure, at any point our behaviour changes and we doesn't repeat the same mistake, because the only thing we have in a mind is to fulfil the aim and take on planting the success. The failures are the red path -indicators of success. The failures give us clues to rectify our mistakes and tell us how to club efforts in the right directions so that one day we will get success positively.
Every successful man fails at some time. Failure yell you about your weakness, shortcomings, lack of preparations, lack of efforts so if you can manage to learn from failures, you will definitely reach where you started out to go. Making a mistake is not a crime, the ability to learn from it contribute to lasting success. Facing failure make one strong, more wise and more resolute, spur them on to greatest efforts. There is no failure in truth save from within, unless we are beaten there, wear we are bound to succeed.
Failure means lack of preparation, lack of competitiveness, lack of analysing the things properly. Failures not only tell us that we couldn't prepare ourselves up to the level of success and reveal our shortcomings, but also give us encouragement to try again with more preparations, with more labour and with more hard work.
Failures should not allowed to create frustration, desperateness or disappointment, instead, instead failure should be taken as a boon which give you strength to fight back with fierce fortitude and invincible zeal.
Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. Little minds are tamed and subdued by failures, misfortunes, but great minds rise above it. We must face every adverse circumstance as its master and do not let it master us. So failures are the pillars of the success.
"People says, Do Or Die.. I say Do Before You Die "